When we criticize ourselves, we often make our distress worse by criticizing our self-criticism.
However, this is counterproductive because it only serves as fuel for making us feel worse i.e., that we have an inner critic, and we then feel bad that we are finding it so hard to shift.
However, what's important to remember is that our inner critic, as described by author Marsha Rosenberg (Non-Violent Communication), as being an expression of ourselves that is striving to better or protect us.
When this tips into self-criticism, this part of our identity is out of balance and the behavioural changes it motivates tend to also be imbalanced, making us feel bad. This can then move into a cycle of unbalanced behaviour and self-criticism that is very unhelpful.
Feelings of stress, anxiety and depression resulting from too much self-criticism can impact overall well-being.